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Must-play
The songs, artists, family favorites, and cultural selections you would be disappointed not to hear.
The soundtrack should reflect the couple and connect the guests
Wedding Music Planning
Choose the songs that carry meaning, define the boundaries, and leave room for the DJ to respond to the room.
Start with the moments
Choose songs by purpose—not by pressure
You do not need to select every song played at the wedding. Focus first on the moments that belong specifically to you.
- Prelude and guest-arrival music
- Wedding-party and couple processional songs
- Recessional song
- Grand entrance
- First dance and family dances
- Cake cutting, bouquet, anniversary dance, or traditions
- Final dance and send-off
Three useful lists
Give direction without building a six-hour playlist
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Do-not-play
Songs, artists, genres, activities, or common wedding selections that do not fit you.
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Use your judgment
The range of genres, decades, and guest requests the DJ can use to connect the crowd.
A multi-generation celebration
Build bridges between different ages and music tastes
Wedding guests may include children, grandparents, college friends, coworkers, and extended family. A thoughtful reception can move across decades and genres without feeling random.
Tell us which groups matter most, which styles bring your families together, and how adventurous the playlist can be.
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